Dear Siiiiinnngle Girl (Very Single Girl),
You know who you are. You seem to be the one not getting a date, asked out, or having guys be interested in you.
You're the girl whose best friends asked out to homecoming, Prom, winter formal, and out in general while you eat ice cream and watch Say Yes To The Dress with your dog.
You're the girl who's always the just friend to guys and never something more.
You worry about maybe never getting a date or getting married. Let me just speak something into your life right now, you will get married. You have nothing to worry about! Maybe guys aren't interested in you now. But someday the most amazing guy will be and you'll be glad you didn't waste your time on anybody else.
Maybe you can't stop thinking about an amazing guy, super amazing. He's everything you want and would love for him to feel the same way about you as you do him. But he likes your best friend. (Yeah this one hurts the world. I can say I feel your pain from personal experience.)
I'm just going to say that either this guy will realize one day what a fool he's been and ask you out or Gods going to one up him like no other. Just you wait.
Do you worry what's wrong with you? That maybe you aren't pretty enough? Funny enough? Skinny enough? Filled out enough? Smart enough? A little too smart? Not talented enough? Not bubbly enough? The answer is none of those things.
It’s hard to not question why you are still the super single girl in the middle of Couple Central. But just stop putting yourself down. It's not worth it to yourself, God, or your future husband. So many people love you to the moon and back and maybe it’s not a romantic type of love right now, but it is love. More people than you think care about you as a person and don't think less of you because of your unchanging relationship status.
It’s easy to try to change ourselves in order to please a guy but don't we all want someone who loves us for us? Be the best you that you can be. God sent his one and only son to die on the cross for you; not for the person you’re trying to make yourself into or for you to try to be someone else so don’t even go there. You're truly wonderful.
Relationships are messy anyways and lead to more heartbreak than you see coming.
And finally, you think you're the only siiiingle girl out there? Look again. It might seem like everyone is having a "thing" with someone else, dating, engaged, getting crushed on, or even married but look again!
I'm writing this to you because I am that really single girl. Yeah it is tough but know that this time of being extra single is actually a giant blessing. It looks like an ugly piece of lowering your self esteem but you can make it so much more than that.
I want you to know that you are worthy of love and are loved.
I want you to promise me you'll never settle for anything less than a Godly gentleman because he gives you a second glance. I want you to stay you because anyone else is a downgrade compared to how you are naturally.
I feel compelled to write this because I need you to know you're not alone and to encourage you because you might feel like junk right now but don’t because there is nothing wrong with you or with being the siiiiiiingle girl. And know that as I write this to you I write this to myself.
With love,
Your Super Single Sister
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